Driving can be a bit tricky, especially when you’re transporting someone with memory issues. Whether it’s a parent with dementia or a friend who sometimes gets confused, your priority is to keep everyone safe and comfortable. 

Here are 3 tips to help make the ride smoother for everyone.

Know Your Passenger’s Needs

Before you hit the road, take a moment to understand your passenger’s memory issues. Conditions like Alzheimer’s can cause confusion and anxiety, so knowing what to expect can help a lot. It’s a good idea to chat with them about how they’re feeling about the trip. Maybe they’d prefer a familiar route that avoids heavy traffic or busy intersections.

You can also prep by discussing the places you’ll go. Familiarity can ease some anxiety, so if they recognize the areas, it might help them feel more comfortable. So stick to roads they know, and if they start to get nervous, don’t hesitate to reassure them that it’s okay. You’re in this together!

Make the Car a Comfortable Space

Creating a safe and comfortable environment in the car is very important. Start by clearing out any loose items that could cause distractions while driving. Then make sure your passenger is securely buckled up and comfortable. If they need help, lend a hand to get their seatbelt fastened.

Consider making the ride relaxing. Soft music can work wonders in calming nerves, so feel free to play some of their favorites. If they have a blanket or a cherished item, let them bring it along for added comfort. Keeping the car tidy and organized can also help minimize distractions, allowing both of you to focus on the road ahead.

Communicate Simply and Calmly

Good communication is key when driving someone with memory issues.

Use simple language and be clear about where you’re going. Instead of throwing out a lot of information, break it down into bite-sized pieces. For example, rather than saying, “We’re going to the grocery store, then the park,” you could just say, “First, we’re heading to the grocery store.” Stay calm, especially if they seem anxious or confused. Encourage them to ask questions or share how they’re feeling. If they’re not comfortable, be ready to adjust your plans—whether it’s stopping for a break or choosing a different route. Being flexible can really help ease their worries.

And consider bringing a favourite visual that could be a pleasant distraction. This really can help them stay oriented and make the journey feel a bit more familiar, which can be comforting.

Driving with passengers who have memory issues can be stressful but luckily there’s plenty you can do. Just remembering to be patient and empathetic is a great start. And with a little preparation and these tips, you can hit the road with confidence!